Steady on guys, you go too far

[dave m]

Small wonder there are so few women here with posts like this, no names mentioned:

"Well, if the new mom expects things to go smoothly without the aid of a doctor, she needs to practice some stretching exercises first. This can be an adventure with all sorts of fruit and household items, and hubby can have all sorts of fun with his whole hand."

And this whole women hating thing is getting a liittle out of hand too, from those embittered people that do it. You've obviously had bad experiences, I for one am getting tired of hearing the repercussions of it.

Sorry but someone had to say it.


Dave

[Indiana]

Re: Steady on guys, you go too far

Originally posted by dave m
Small wonder there are so few women here with posts like this, no names mentioned:

Uhm, there are nearly NO women in all such technical /computer hardware oriented internet fori I know of. There are even more female users in the MURC than in other comparable sized fori, if you ask me.

Other than that, you're correct, of course.

[dave m]

Fair point, Indiana.

Dave

[thop]

I support what dave said!

[az]

Yes, me too. And I support your sig!

AZ

[KvHagedorn]

Sorry if that offended any delicate sensibilities, but imho, this does not get mentioned enough to expectant mothers. If you decide to wait until your 30s to have children, as many women do now, you will simply not be as supple as you were earlier in life. The women and their terrified husbands who freak out about such things are the ones who wind up suffering the huge tears we were talking about and almost bleeding to death. If she is expecting, it's going to be stretched out anyway, you know.. only in a very violent and sudden way. If the mother is not prepared for this, the consequences can be awful. This same thing happened to a friend's wife (he was ALSO too timid to bring up the possibility of the stretching exercises I was talking about.) She tore badly and the resident in charge at the time stitched her up wrong. She has been suffering painfully ever since. All because one or both partners were too uptight about something perfectly sensible. I was just intimating that it could be fun, too. Sorry again if it just seemed crude.

[dave m]

thanks for the explanation, KvH

dave