Poll.

[KvHagedorn]

Originally posted by Jon P. Inghram
Quoting Monty Python, "Run away!"

I was about to ask why this wasn't an option in your poll!

Agreed.. trouble BIG time.. if you are a black belt and have a sense of adventure I might say go for it and slam her silly, but then again, I know someone who knows someone who was a black belt, slept with a guy's wife, and when the husband confronted him about it, he beat the living shit outta the husband in public, humiliating him such that he got a gun and blew both of them away.

[Sasq]

Well she gets points for being honest and upfront about the BF and kids.

I'm with Dil on this, doesn't heart to meet for a coffee and talk, not all male/female relationships have to include horizontal positions and bedsheets.

[lecter]

Don't bother with her, I reckon...even as a friend, from a egoistical standpoint, it's just not worth it. Unless you wanna play Mother Teresa, that is.

[KvHagedorn]

In a way, it's kinda insulting when a member of the opposite sex sees you as "just a friend." As if she had come out and said "Oh, you have a penis? I didn't notice!"

[High_Jumbllama]

Originally posted by KvHagedorn
In a way, it's kinda insulting when a member of the opposite sex sees you as "just a friend." As if she had come out and said "Oh, you have a penis? I didn't notice!"

Ditto.
Oh the things some women have told me because they don't even consider me an interest. Run away fast unless you like emotional torture.

[Jessterw]

Why is it that a woman with two kids isn't worth the same as a woman without? The fact she admitted she has kids says a lot, and she deserves just as much respect as any other.

Obviously she is probably looking for a way out of a relationship that isn't adequate. Given that she isn't married, there's nothing wrong with that.

As said before, not all male-female relationships have to be about sex. I find having female friends to be of great benefit, regardless of whether they have kids or significant others.

The best thing to do is bring out into the open what each of you want out of a relationship with each other. But don't throw away a potentially fulfilling relationship because of aspects of her life that aren't necessarily negatives.

[agallag]

To quote an unknown comedian when a girl asked him where all the nice guys are:

We're the ones you complain to about the ****oles you're sleeping with!

[Lizzard[MPE]]

is her 2 kids from a previous marriage or are they with the current boyfriend?

[The PIT]

Originally posted by Dilitante1
honestly, it dont hurt to talk, just keep things cool and see what she has to say, she MIGHT just think you are someone she can talk to as a (dare I say this?) a friend

Just talking can get you into trouble. Guess you haven't met guy the brain dead gorrilla very much.

[Fluff]

I'm going to steer clear. It is of no real long or short term benefit to me, maybe to her but i'll be the one losing out at the end of the day. I'm just gonna take it as a confidence boost and move on. But I am curious as to what she has to say.

Also I have the knack of diggin holes for myself in conversations.

[Fluff]

KvH, that was scary story about the black belt.