we where inseprabel for the first 6 years

[RhinoZ]

Sorry to hear about all this SD.
But it's going around.
A friend of mine is separated and going through a divorce. They were at a point in their marriage that they would watch TV in separate rooms. Not because they couldn't stand each other, but they just fell out of love with each other.

[UtwigMU]

Like others have pointed out, getting friends (and I mean real life friends, not us), restructuring social life, meeting new people is important.

I also highly recommend taking up some sport as being fit will make you more cheerful and self confident.

[The Rock]

Sorry to hear about all this S.D.; very sad news indeed. I wish you both all the best. Sadly, as someone alluded to earlier, this break-up stuff is indeed making the rounds. Happened to quite a few friends of mine, several couples with small children involved.

Try to look on the bright side (if that's possible). If you both don't have kids, this is the right time to end things. In the end, if you both wind up happy (with other people OR with each other), this is a good thing. It's probably very hard to see that now, but you will. The time you spend apart will enlighten you both considerably. Good luck to both of you.

[KvHagedorn]

Hope everything works out for the best. If you can remain friends you might feel better about things. Good luck.

[SpiralDragon]

Originally posted by The Rock
Try to look on the bright side (if that's possible). If you both don't have kids, this is the right time to end things. In the end, if you both wind up happy (with other people OR with each other), this is a good thing. It's probably very hard to see that now, but you will. The time you spend apart will enlighten you both considerably. Good luck to both of you.

no kids...

and i agree... i am not unhapy about the decision... just a litle sad... i gree that now is better than later...


btw... there does seem to be some sort of endemic in the air... allot of my freinds are droping eachother aswell...


as for finding real freinds... this will take me some time... but i am beging to revitalise old contacts... the ones i realy want to talk to however i am keeping till a bit later... it just hapenes they are both femails and i dont want them to get the wrong idea... i am not clear even to myself on this point... long story...

[Fat Tone]

Sorry to hear of your troubles SD

Try to keep positive.

T.

[SpiralDragon]

well... looks like there is hope for reconcilation yet... but it will take some time..

[squire]

sorry to hear all this, but give it some time and remember why you were inseperabel for the first 6 years... and canada will not fix things but do what you want for you