New "Love" Thread

[CHHAS]

I agree with ElDonAntonio, it's a great way to get into shape, and start feeling good about being you again.

[Dogbert]

Originally posted by K6-III
Perfect reason to colonize the moon....

Did you buy a property ?

[Ribbit]

I'm with ElDonAntonio and CHHAS, get some exercise if you don't already. It doesn't have to be a martial art (although that's a fine idea) - go swimming, jogging, cycling... heck, take up the drums (and ignore the jokes posted the other day ). As long as you enjoy it and can/will do it regularly. It will make you feel better in yourself with a little time, it really will.

[Evildead666]

Originally posted by Ribbit
I'm with ElDonAntonio and CHHAS, get some exercise if you don't already. It doesn't have to be a martial art (although that's a fine idea) - go swimming, jogging, cycling... heck, take up the drums (and ignore the jokes posted the other day ). As long as you enjoy it and can/will do it regularly. It will make you feel better in yourself with a little time, it really will.

I'm with all the above.
Get up, get out and do something!

I had a very nice (awful) breakup just over a year ago.

Your friends and family will help you not feel alone.

I go cycling, mountain biking with a couple of frineds. It gets me out and about. I know what you mean about booze too....
Hang in there, things can only get better....

[Sethos]

Not being married myself, or even beng in a relationship (not for lack of trying LOL) at the moment, but here's a good piece of advice that I got for problems:

First:
Work the problem, don't let the problem work you.
Second:
Take problems small chunks at a time and accomplish
those chunks; soon those chunks will add up to a solved
problem.

Hope it maybe helps a little (though probably not...)

~Sethos

[Byock]

I have to agree. I just went through a nasty Divorce in July. It is hard, but not impossible. Exercise does help..(and I lost 40 lbs)

Friends and family are essential.


Good luck, and keep us posted. We are always here...

[cbman]

Holding Pattern

Well for another update.

I haven't taken up any kinda sports yet although I don't have a car and am frequently late for work so I guess maybe I do "Jog"

Right now the whole thing is in a holding pattern. She hasn't left yet and through some counselling we are giving it one last try.

We have agreed though that if things aren't working out any better that we would part ways and at least be resonable to each other.

By Counselling I mean a friend of a friend who is a real marriage and guidance counciller, and also an avid pot smoker. He took me out and got me high for the first time then talked me through everything I wasn't seeing. Then he did the same for her. Then we sat down baked as hell at the bar in a booth and had it out for about two and a half hours until everything fit together better and everything was out in the open.

What I get out of the whole thing was that she didn't realize how she was treating me until I finally left and wouldn't come back at her beck and call. Then she realized and tried to change but it was too late and I still didn't come back. Then she realized she had lost me and got really really upset about the whole thing.

Me on the other hand was just pissed off that she was acting like that for so long (almost the whole two years we have been married.) and didn't want to take anymore back and forth feelings. So right now if things don't work out... well that's it and since we both are trying our hardest we will know it isn't meant to be.

I will try to keep updating this thread every few days or so... just so that I have something to do. And so that you guys have something different to read than lame lines from Zokes (Just kidding man )

Charles

[Admiral]

Originally posted by cbman
Me on the other hand was just pissed off that she was acting like that for so long (almost the whole two years we have been married.) and didn't want to take anymore back and forth feelings. So right now if things don't work out... well that's it and since we both are trying our hardest we will know it isn't meant to be.

WyWyWyWy
May I just ask...
Cbman do you have kids?


Originally posted by Greebe
Nope, he doesn't... well last we heard from cbmon (and we warned him against "her" needs ie babies ie ball'n chain immature selfish behaviour/dead weight mentality)

Haven't read the first thread and don't have kids, but I'm with them... take care

[Evildead666]

Yes. A big joint calms the nerves, and allows for free speaking.

I was named 'Chief' for a while at uni.
I found out later it stood for 'Big Chief speaking Bull'.
i fell for it for 5 years.

One thing positive: Don't look at the negative side too much. Try not to think too much about "and if it doesn't work...".
Keep all thoughts positive. You and your wife.

Jez

[KvHagedorn]

One bad thing about pot.. if you don't see any problems you don't deal with them..

[Admiral]

Or you start dealing with them with more pot ? (not good)

[Evildead666]

He he, yes. It can very much cloud your mind...

edit: can't say that.

[Sasq]

Hope this is the one you wanted me to move

Dan

[cbman]

Yep this would be the one... I'm going to see if I can finish it tonight... if not it will be tomorrow.

Charles