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  • #16
    Too many negative girl stories, so here's a good one.

    I went to Acapulco in 1987 with two buddies of mine and there was this Bar called the Dome. A real hotspot. On our second night in Acapulco we went to this bar and by luck it was special night for the students of the University of Michigan. And boy o boy were there a lot of women. Of course I see a real light haired hottie, and I can't keep my eyes off of her. She's with two other very pretty girls at a table right on the dance floor. So after a few tequilas and beer my buddies and I start going around the bar and I head straight for her. I ask her to dance and she shut me down so hard I was stunned, it was not even a polite loud NO. So I asked her friend who was sitting next to her and she said YES. Woohoo! We ended up together for most of the week while we were in Acapulco. We hit it off great and I had the best time of my life. We wrote letters for a while, (no email back then) we tried to hook up for another spring vacation but it didn't happen but we did get together in New York for a weekend in the summer of 1988. She was there visiting some friends from school and it was only a 7hr drive for me. Again we had a great time, but we both knew that we wouldn't be able to keep it up. We wrote Christmas cards and Birthday cards to each other up until she got married in 1993, and she sent her last card when she got twins. I got married in 1996 and have two great little girls.
    So the moral of the story, if you don't try, you never know what you are missing (also a little luck helps too). Oh and like the Doc said, be a nice person and you wouldn't believe all the doors that will open for you.

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    • #17
      Originally posted by RhinoZ
      it was only a 7hr drive for me
      Heck! That would take me to Edinburgh!

      More seriously; Knirfie - we all go through shit at times, but we all also have some pretty friggin good times. You love, you lose, you love again. (And yes, you might lose again...) But you have life. And good friends like you as you are. Shit included. They won't stop liking you. If they do, they weren't good friends.

      Having said that, always DO try to be good to people. When I am in a really down mood, I KNOW I can cheer myself up by just smiling at someone (not in a freaky way!) in the street, the bus, the tube... and they will smile back.

      You can think two ways - (i) all people are basically nice (ii) all people are basically c*nts.

      (i) won't do you any harm if you keep your wits about you

      (ii) will make you miserable.

      Try to encourage others to believe (i) by being decent to them. It will cheer you up.
      Last edited by GNEP; 4 July 2003, 16:23.
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      • #18
        EX-CEL-LENT posting GNEP, couldn't agree more. You basically said it all in a shell

        AZ
        There's an Opera in my macbook.

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        • #19
          -possibly because I'm feeling it...
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          • #20
            Re: pathetic loser

            Originally posted by knirfie
            There is also this girl in Texas I used to chat with a lot for about a year or so, she really nice, and has send me presents twice (one time for my birthday, and one time just spontaneously because she thought she’d found something I’d really like, which was a very good assumption, but she probably hates me to now, because in all that time I still haven’t send her something back, yeah, I know, I just realized it myself too, I’m an ****ole… and I’ve been behaving like one a lot more, I don't know if I've ever been an ****ole around here, but if so I’d like to apologize.
            Well, what are you waiting for ... send a present back to this girl. It will make you and her feel better.
            80% of people think I should be in a Mental Institute

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            • #21
              pathetic loser

              Originally posted by rugger
              Well, what are you waiting for ... send a present back to this girl. It will make you and her feel better.
              Yeah, i was thinking I should really do this, biggest problem is that she isn't online a lot anymore, and I lost her adress somewhere, so I dont know where to send it... stupid me...
              but I have actually bought something now.
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              • #22
                GO KNIRFIE GO!!!
                Sat on a pile of deads, I enjoy my oysters.

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                • #23
                  And you know what?

                  If your friends were/are real friends... they'll accept your apology and help you get on with life.

                  - Gurm
                  The Internet - where men are men, women are men, and teenage girls are FBI agents!

                  I'm the least you could do
                  If only life were as easy as you
                  I'm the least you could do, oh yeah
                  If only life were as easy as you
                  I would still get screwed

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                  • #24
                    At least your not me. I come off TOO strong, my intentions are good but my presentation is... (how would I describe it) I come off as too pushy. Then I wonder what I did wrong, then someone tells me, and I end up feeling like a jackass.
                    Titanium is the new bling!
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                    • #25
                      knirfie,
                      Before you beat yourself up too much.
                      Did it ever occure to you that if she was realy the girl of your dreams, you would be able to talk to her?
                      Also, for all you know, you avoided the worst heartbreak of your life.
                      Enjoy the fantasy, but don't confuse it with real life.
                      chuck
                      Chuck
                      秋音的爸爸

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                      • #26
                        Originally posted by ZokesPro
                        At least your not me. I come off TOO strong, my intentions are good but my presentation is... (how would I describe it) I come off as too pushy. Then I wonder what I did wrong, then someone tells me, and I end up feeling like a jackass.
                        I dont know what would be better, comming off as too pushy, or not comming off at all...
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                        • #27
                          Originally posted by cjolley
                          knirfie,
                          Before you beat yourself up too much.
                          Did it ever occure to you that if she was realy the girl of your dreams, you would be able to talk to her?
                          Also, for all you know, you avoided the worst heartbreak of your life.
                          Enjoy the fantasy, but don't confuse it with real life.
                          chuck
                          That's actaully a good one, now if i keep on thinking that for the next few weeks i might actually start believing it, and hopefully feel a little better, but why would i be able to talk to her if she had been the girl of my dreams? i just generally freeze up when beautiful/nice/pretty girls start talking to me.
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                          • #28
                            Girl of your dreams, you will be able to talk to - goes with the territory
                            Juu nin to iro


                            English doesn't borrow from other languages. It follows them down dark alleys, knocks them over, and goes through their pockets for loose grammar.

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                            • #29
                              Hard to say. Sometimes biding your time can lead to missing out, sometimes being too pushy can scare them off too easily.

                              I've met a few girls that were either too pushy or not at all and the ones that are too pushy scared the crap out of me and the others, they left me searching for more interesting territory (got bored fast).

                              Both are bad in their own way, that's the best I can describe it.
                              Titanium is the new bling!
                              (you heard from me first!)

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                              • #30
                                There's something called the Law of Reverse Effect.

                                The harder you look for something, the farther away it goes.

                                The moment you give up and relax, you find it sitting in your lap.

                                How can you possibly take anything seriously?
                                Who cares?

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