argggg...

[Dr Mordrid]

I had the advantage of being able to play the "bad boy" but then transition to being a gentleman after a keeper was hooked

Me at 18-25: 6' 1", 240 lbs (heavily muscled), back length blonde hair (often in a pony tail), moustache (still have it), goatee, jeans, funky shirts, X-sports (before they had a name for 'em), fast cars & bikes etc. etc.

It was predictable: she chased me until it was too late. Once it was decided she was a keeper I carefully guided the transition.

Dr. Mordrid

[schmosef]

http://www.laddertheory.com/

This Ladder Theory thing is hysterical. Thanks for the laugh.

(as Homer would say: "It's funny 'cause it's true.")

Seriously, It's like my eyes have been opened for the first time. Everything is clear to me now.

[TransformX]

This Ladder Theory thing is hysterical. Thanks for the laugh.

(as Homer would say: "It's funny 'cause it's true.")

Seriously, It's like my eyes have been opened for the first time. Everything is clear to me now.

Conclusion, forget a car. Buy a Harley-Davidson and a t-shirt which reads: "If you can read this, the bitch fell".

[Sasq]

I think pretty much it comes down to knowing when to be a gentleman, and when to not.

[VJ]

Conclusion, forget a car. Buy a Harley-Davidson and a t-shirt which reads: "If you can read this, the bitch fell".

And then when you meet somebody, she sitting behind you wearing a t-shirt that reads: "If you can read this, the bastard won't let me drive".


Sasq: the problem for me is I'm always a gentlemen... and like SD pointed out: most girls really like that , but it doesn't get you anywhere...


Jörg

[SpiralDragon]

Walak eirak be ahsan bint ya raes (I won't translate that LOL )

ROFL hahahahahahahahah.......


i wont translate that either.......

[Sasq]

simply put, do you want a woman who is always a 'china doll' lady, or a real person?

And keep in mind, there is a vast specturm of difference between a 'gentleman' and 'chauvinistic pig'

Treat women with respect yes, like a china doll, no.

[SpiralDragon]

SD, just a qiuck Q here, uhm, while they are talking to you, you think they could spare a minute to listen to you too?

well let me put it this way.... my greatest misery atm is the lack of a person.. male or female.... who is willing to listen to me and understand the words that i say

[Fluff]

SD, after you have found someone who listens to what you have got to say, what do you expect to happen. In most situations you probably know most of the answers to your questions anyway.

Go speed dating or something and have fun trying to be an arse hole one night, and mix it up a little bit.

[ZokesPro]

I know I'm jumping into this thread a bit late but nice guys don't always finish last. If you had to be a jerk to get that girl than she just wasn't worth it. Trust me.

I was alone for who knows how long but I never changed my ways and I now have a girlfriend who appreciates me for who I am. I know that waiting sucks but in my case it was well worth it.

[VJ]

I know I'm jumping into this thread a bit late but nice guys don't always finish last. If you had to be a jerk to get that girl than she just wasn't worth it. Trust me.

I was alone for who knows how long but I never changed my ways and I now have a girlfriend who appreciates me for who I am. I know that waiting sucks but in my case it was well worth it.

Yep, the waiting sucks...
But I still have hope for a similar happy ending.


Jörg

[Gurm]

Women want sensitive men to listen to their problems, to let them cry on their shoulders... and to hold their hands. Then they go and fvck outlaw bikers.

[SpiralDragon]

yeh the waiting sux.... but i dont think it is my destny to have a happy ending.....

@fluff: "after you have found someone who listens to what you have got to say, what do you expect to happen. In most situations you probably know most of the answers to your questions anyway."

you are right i belive... but the interaction is important and vital... at least for me.... and as mutch as i would like to be an arshole... i just cant... i have too much respect for women of any standard... and i am simply to empethetic....

almost all my pears... even the ones older than me by decades... look up to me as a father figure... as mutch as i have need for phisical, mental and emotional affection to the point of desperation... i just can never take advantage of any one .... in contrast i am a very manipulative person... however, when i use my manipulation technics its for the otherpersons benefits.. not mine....

there are realy only two ladies that can be that person fro me.... however... they both feal intimidated by my ability to look them in the eye just once and sort of read their minds... i cant help it... i dont do it on purpous.... one of them is a great freind but we barly see eachother beacuse of her hectic schedual.... the other i love with such itnensity that it hurts... she wont socialise with me because of my feelings... i have explained to her that i can be just a freind but she has regected that idea... i have asked her to tell me what she wants.... she wont say... i asked her if she would rather i **** off and she replies 'no' instently..... and honestly that frustrates me even more... especialy because she and i have an almost perfect compatibility..... she agrees to this too... but still she keeps away from me.... when we are officaly not communicating with eachother and she goes off on a trip somewhere.. she always brings me a gift with her.... if she doesnt consider me as a freind and will not talk to me the way we used to anymore then why for god's sake dose she torment me like this.....


@TX: that lady lader theory of yours... i would have to disagree... i can be freinds with someone i am atracted too.... as long as i know that person is not intrested in having a sexual relationship with me i can accept it as a given... and no mater how atractive i find that person i wont atempt to even get a kiss from her...

[Gurm]

@TX: that lady lader theory of yours... i would have to disagree... i can be freinds with someone i am atracted too.... as long as i know that person is not intrested in having a sexual relationship with me i can accept it as a given... and no mater how atractive i find that person i wont atempt to even get a kiss from her...

Yes but you will WANT to, even if you repress it very well. That's the point of ladder theory.

[SpiralDragon]

eh.. maybe so... but that dosent mean freindship cannot exists....