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    Today we lost one of our most precious family members: Spike, our huge Rottweiler/Rhodesian Ridgeback mix.

    A powerful, protective and very intelligent dog he stood guard over us for almost 15 years. If anyone
    were stupid enough to do anything untowards Spike would tear them a new one. This was no idle threat; he
    has defended us on several occasions. Often just him coming around the corner with his teeth bared, ridge
    hairs standing straight up and head down was enough to scatter miscreants. A very impressive sight.

    Tough as he could be he was also extremely tolerant and protective of our kids and grandkids. Love them he
    did, and he'd take every opportunity to guard them from infancy to adulthood. Sometimes he wouldn't let our
    daughter take her own kids home, blocking the door at every turn. He took on this role for every kid and grandkid
    since we got him from the pound as a pup. When Erik was an infant there was Spike, standing guard under his crib.

    He wasn't just my dog. He was one of my best friends. He woke me every morning with a big lick that covered
    most of my face. He always stood guard over me when my bad leg was keeping me up all night. He did the same
    duty when other family members were sick, often going to get help if one got sick during the night.

    He was also the big doofey mutt who would damned near kill me by jumping onto my entire body when he wanted
    to play. Never got the idea he wasn't a lap puppy any more

    Over the last few months Spike started to deteriorate; wasting of his hind quarters due to arthritis,
    loss of sight in one eye and gastrointestinal problems. Finally, it's my belief that he had a stroke last
    night. We had him put down today.

    Consider the pictures below my tribute to the best dog, and friend, a man could ever want.

    Spike in his prime - 110 lbs of pure hell on wheels when the chips were down.


    Erik's best buddy. There every morning no matter what until he started going
    downhill. A certain little boy is broken-hearted.


    Guarding our grandson, Kaden. A huge, playful, but tenaciously protective, babysitter.



    "Awww....can't I have him for a while? P-P-P-plleeezzzzeeee?"


    His natural state when not "on duty."


    And of course he took part in Halloween.
    Last edited by Dr Mordrid; 13 October 2009, 10:12.
    Dr. Mordrid
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  • #2
    Good dog.

    Kevin

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    • #3
      Sorry for your loss Doc.

      Been there twice in the last three years, one at 12 and one at 16.
      You have my sympathy.

      About a week after we lost the older one ChooChoo saw a rainbow in the sky and said "Look. It's Xuong saying hello to the world!"
      Last edited by cjolley; 15 October 2009, 11:40.
      Chuck
      秋音的爸爸

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      • #4
        I'm sorry for your loss Doc. RIP Spike.
        FT.

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        • #5
          Losing a family member is always a sad experience
          "For every action, there is an equal and opposite criticism."

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          • #6
            Sorry to hear, Doc. We just lost our 15 1/2 year old choc lab recently, so we know how hard it is.
            Yeah, well I'm gonna build my own lunar space lander! With blackjack aaaaannd Hookers! Actually, forget the space lander, and the blackjack. Ahhhh forget the whole thing!

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            • #7

              we lost our last dog some 7 years ago.. they truely become par of the family. Current dog seems somewhat similar to yours, same size and also with a noticable ridge down his back when growling at something.
              We have enough youth - What we need is a fountain of smart!


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              • #8
                Sometimes loss of a dog is worse than a human family member, because we feel more helpless at the aid we can give him. Spike had a good life and exceptionally long for one of his stature. You will never forget him. I've gone through this several times and it is always painful. My condolences.
                Brian (the devil incarnate)

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                • #9
                  I'd like to thank my MURC friends for their kind thoughts. The last couple of days were really hard on everyone;

                  most everyone calling his name at some point, or putting a hand down to pet his perpetually present head, only to remember there would be no answer and no head to pet

                  no big fat head sticking out from under the table cloth for dinner leftovers

                  no Spike taking up the middle of the living rooms natural 'best path', making it hard to get from anywhere to anywhere without diverting

                  no Spike to trip over at his night time 'guard station' in front of the bathroom (so he could monitor all of the bedrooms, the hallway, the hall between living room and dining room etc.). This is where I found him after his stroke (vet agrees this is what happened). Guarding his family to the last.

                  when I had to lay on the floor with my leg on the couch because of pain there was no one to cuddle up, give me a kiss and make things feel better

                  no greeting in the morning, especially for Erik and I

                  no one begging for bread trimmings while my wife was making Erik's school lunch (he hates the brown parts)

                  no companion during the day for Zero, our middle sons Jack Russell terrier. She looked and looked for Spike and got very upset

                  Time heals, of course, but it really sucks in the process. A lot of joy is gone from the house, and everyone is feeling it.

                  We had thought about an early replacement but two things made us delay that; Erik felt it would dishonor Spike to do it this soon, and he also said the coming early winter could complicate potty training.

                  Insightful kid.

                  He did suggest a possible name for our next dog though: "One". Two dogs in the house: One and Zero, a binary pairing. Cute, but I'm not sure yet. What do you guys think?

                  We have also discussed what kind of dog. Erik wants a Newfoundland, Lab or a German or Australian Shepherd. I'm a fan of German Shepherds and Lab/Shepherd mixes, having had 2 sheps and 3 lab/sheps and all were great dogs.

                  We know a long time breeder of Shepherds down in the farm area where I grew up, and in fact he bred Roxy - my dog during adolescence to adulthood. His father brought back some guard dogs after WW-II and they've been providing Shepherds to the area farmers ever since. Big ones he breeds - Roxy was an athletic 152 lbs at her prime and very much like Spike in her love of kids and ferocious defense of home and family.

                  Have an old picture of Roxy (below). The other dog is her daughter Sassy, 80+ lbs herself but dwarfed by her mother....

                  Last edited by Dr Mordrid; 15 October 2009, 12:30.
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                  • #10
                    Sorry to hear about your loss. We had many dogs in my past and felt the same each time one on our dogs would pass away.

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                    • #11
                      Our pets are part of the family too....
                      RIP.
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                      • #12
                        Condolences Doc...
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                        • #13
                          German Shepards are beautiful dogs.

                          And I rather like Erik's name idea.

                          Kevin

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                          • #14
                            Here are my George and Barry from 1975.
                            Shepards are great dogs.





                            PS Isn't Zero a character from Beatle Baily that you wouldnt want to name a pet after?
                            Chuck
                            秋音的爸爸

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                            • #15
                              Isn't Zero a character from Beatle Baily that you wouldnt want to name a pet after?
                              Yeah, Zero is dumb. But he has a heart of gold and will bend over backward to help anyone who needs it.

                              Kevin

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