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understandable, and I hope it works out - personally I'm giving dating a year break because my girl-dar seems to be set to crazy and I need to figure out how to fix it. Which honestly probably requires focusing on myself, and working on what needs working and coming to grips with what's just fine.
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Wikipedia and Google.... the needles to my tangent habit.
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Y'all just need happy pills. All y'all.The Internet - where men are men, women are men, and teenage girls are FBI agents!
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If your looking for a nice stable relationship with a decent girl, than my advice is be yourself. I don't know lebanese chicks but eventually you'll find one, just be patient and things should fall into place.
Now if your just looking for a piece of ass... you'll need to spend a few bucks. Hang out at a local bar (one with a dance floor cause that's where the hot ones go) and pay attention to the girls that keep glancing over at you. When you find one that seems interested then buy her a few drinks until she looses up a bit. Then take her home for some naughty and dirty fun.
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You don't know me...Originally posted by ZokesPro
But all joking aside, while I recognize that this is true, there are days that the long wait gets to a guy. And in that aspect I understand SD: I'm in the exact same situation. A couple of weeks ago, dunno what the cause was (nice weather? seeing nothing but couples outside - of course, this is just imagination but still?), but the wait was also getting to me. Just hang in there is the best advice...
And don't hesitate to talk to friends...
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Then go with plan B! (see quote belowOriginally posted by VJ
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That'll calm you down for a day or two.Originally posted by ZokesPro
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SD, since you listen to them and are generally close, use that to your advantage...I don't mean in a "take advantage of a weak moment" kind of way, but in a "tell them what they want to hear" style...by now you must have understood a lot of your loved one's character, so just try to induce happy thoughts. For ex., the effect of a late-evening playful SMS, carefully timed so that it's one of the last (if not the last) things she sees before going to sleep, has a guaranteed effect - if she goes to bed with a smile on her face and thinking of you, it should prove a step forward
VJ, you have one major advantage over other men: you can actually fly a plane! It's one of those special skills which can make any girl swoon if used properly...and don't wait, just look around - you might be surprised by what surrounds you
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If I were a pilot, I would get SOOOOO much play. You have NO idea.Originally posted by lecterVJ, you have one major advantage over other men: you can actually fly a plane! It's one of those special skills which can make any girl swoon if used properly...and don't wait, just look around - you might be surprised by what surrounds youThe Internet - where men are men, women are men, and teenage girls are FBI agents!
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Hm...ok, on practical things I might eventually discuss...
Actually, you don't have to be a pilot to induce the same effect :> Let us look how it works...
It's all about excitation/agitation (blah, don't know which term is used in EN...), affect and emotion. Simply do something that will make the excitation skyrocket (might be some acrobation that scares the shit out of her...or something else), then quickly make her realise (consciously) that she's safe...but one interesting thing here. The excitation has quite big inertia, and in connection with relief it will lead to rather intense positive affect/emotion (well...I mixed up a bit, but it might be left that way...). Another interesting thing: we tend to try to realize what caused our emotions. And for that reason you should be in this moment as close as possible . So, as you see, plane has also some disadvantage when it comes to this...
Furthermore, I draw up a method to insure very high excitement and quick relief, during which...the subject ( ) ends in my arms. I'll let you know how the tests will turn out (hey, new academic year in 3 weeks after all...in a dorm)
Other thing is that...I know I need it, I know I should do it...but don't want to :/
PS. problems:
1) I think it's unethical (second reason why I shouldn't...above is about me). But I'm essentially a bad person after all...
2) She might seriously think that she's becoming infatuated...Last edited by Nowhere; 8 September 2005, 13:34.
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nice guys that become ****oles because they think thats what women want get no where in life.Comment
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the whole world is based on attraction. it doesnt matter how nice or how much an ****ole you are, if the attraction isnt there then nothing is going to happen.Comment
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Originally posted by Claymonkey
this is sort of where i stand at present. i decided to get out of the dating scene and focus more on me and the goals i want accomplished. right now is all about career. if i can grow my skills as a photographer and get the jobs and im stable in my environment etc, then i can work on the whole relationship thing.
a few weeks ago my sister said to me "but dont you want to find that special someone and get married and start a life together?" and i point blank said "nope, ive got too much to do right now to worry about getting married and finding that someone. if it happens it happens sure, but im not going to go out looking for it, **** all that"
i havent dated since Nov. of last year. and things seem so relaxed to say the least.Comment
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Uhmm...but my post wasn't about becoming an ****ole? Or...hmm :/ Comment
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sorry thats what i was commenting on.. i didnt read anything past the first page.Originally posted by GurmComment
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Originally posted by Lizzard[MPE]You, my dear, have CLEARLY not read or accepted Ladder Theory.Originally posted by Lizzard[MPE]The Internet - where men are men, women are men, and teenage girls are FBI agents!
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If only life were as easy as you
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Yep, if you're healthy you're much more likely to be in a healthy relationship. That and we all tend to work in cycles. If the freak is what you normally end up being attracted to (and they never look like a freak at first), then you'll just keep dating freaks.Originally posted by Lizzard[MPE]Wikipedia and Google.... the needles to my tangent habit.
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