Originally posted by KRSESQ
Damn, Jamm...that's bad S**t.
One quick question, without (hopefully) fanning the flames...
How old was your brother when he first got involved with cigs/booze/drugs? The reason I ask is that there was a recent study (if I can find a link I'll post) that found a direct correllation between the age of the first-time user and the so-called "gateway effect." That is, the younger the first-time user is, the greater the chance that the user would go on to harder drugs. This may seem obvious, but its an important consideration in evaluating an addict for rehab.
One thing we all need to keep in mind is that individuals vary greatly in their tolerance for addictive/toxic substances. One person may smoke one cig and be hooked for life. Another (like my dad) may smoke 20 or 30 years and be able to walk away. Some can smoke pot recreationally for years with few (if any) serious side effects and be just fine if the supply dries up, while others...well, you get the picture.
I guess my point to all this is that a "one-size-fits-all" approach (pardon the cliche) is useless when dealing with problems like this. I certainly am not advocating legalizing LSD or heroin, but I think we'd make a lot more headway in the "War on Drugs" if we prioritized the problem better and stopped treating it as strictly a law-enforcement issue and started treating it as a public health issue.
(God, now I sound like some damned politician!)
Kevin
Damn, Jamm...that's bad S**t.
One quick question, without (hopefully) fanning the flames...
How old was your brother when he first got involved with cigs/booze/drugs? The reason I ask is that there was a recent study (if I can find a link I'll post) that found a direct correllation between the age of the first-time user and the so-called "gateway effect." That is, the younger the first-time user is, the greater the chance that the user would go on to harder drugs. This may seem obvious, but its an important consideration in evaluating an addict for rehab.
One thing we all need to keep in mind is that individuals vary greatly in their tolerance for addictive/toxic substances. One person may smoke one cig and be hooked for life. Another (like my dad) may smoke 20 or 30 years and be able to walk away. Some can smoke pot recreationally for years with few (if any) serious side effects and be just fine if the supply dries up, while others...well, you get the picture.
I guess my point to all this is that a "one-size-fits-all" approach (pardon the cliche) is useless when dealing with problems like this. I certainly am not advocating legalizing LSD or heroin, but I think we'd make a lot more headway in the "War on Drugs" if we prioritized the problem better and stopped treating it as strictly a law-enforcement issue and started treating it as a public health issue.
(God, now I sound like some damned politician!)
Kevin
At that point his 'girlfriend' pressured him into pot and other stuff. Once my sister (his fraternal twin...of course) hooked up with her soon to be ex-husband, all three of them got into some serious s***. My sister cleaned up before she got pregnant, but my brother and the 'ex' never really did. Just got better at hiding it from everyone else until last week.
Thank you everyone for your support. It's hard to watch family members destroy themselves in front of you, and I thank you for your support.
As for the [ex-]borther-in-law...he was half way to Montana before my sister told anyone he was gone. The males in my family (except the druggy) are very large, very strong and have no qualms with beating him to a bloody pulp.
Jammrock
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